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The new issue focuses on personal responsibility, and interestingly enough yesterday while I was at my local farmers' market, I overheard someone saying that they personally did not want to have to assume responsibility for anything in their own life. What??? That's almost like saying you don't want to have to breathe... OK, well while you may not want to, your only other alternative to that choice is death. So, the same with our life.
While a person might not want to take responsibility, after all that is a very "grown-up adult" thing to do, we don't have a choice. We are responsible for our lives, whether we want to be or not.Whether we want to acknowledge it or not. Of course, it's easier to just blame everything in our life on "others": our parents, our education, our government, society, our boss, our co-workers, our mate, our children, etc. etc.
But, we are not powerless!!! If we take on the role of victim, it's still a choice that we make... to accept to be a victim. We don't have to. We can look at our life, and the world around us, and say (quoted from one of my favorite movies, Network) "I'm as mad as hell, and I'm not going to take this anymore!" (see clip here)
We are not victims - at least we don't have to be. Don't like what's going on in your life? in the world? OK, that's step one, acknowledging you don't like what's going on. Next step, ask yourself what you can do about it. And listen to your inner guidance, your inner voice. It will guide you.
What you can do may be monumental, or it may be just a small action, but just as numerous drops of water form a whole ocean, numerous actions taken by each one of us will form a huge tide that can change the whole direction that the world has been going in. Don't sit and complain. Get mad as hell and see what you can do about it.
Let's all stop just complaining and start taking responsibility and ask ourselves, "What can I do to make a difference?" I guarantee you there is something. Each one of us has a role to play in this huge drama of life on earth. If you've been waiting in the wings not sure when to enter front stage, the time is now. Go for it! Choose to make things better. Don't give up and just assume nothing can be done. Everything can be healed!
Things can change! It's up to us to make it happen, one by one, day by day. Don't just throw it all away -- see how you can help fix it! And whatever we choose to do, we must remember to do it with Love in our heart and as our motivation. Doing things from hatred or anger only throws oil on the fire of hatred and discord. Let's make Love our guiding principle and see where it leads us... a better world for sure, even if just in your immediate neighborhood. Love is contagious -- it will spread from there. (Beware though, because hatred and anger is also contagious. So choose wisely which you are spreading in the world.)
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Marie T. Russell, editor/co-publisher,
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"New Attitudes...New Possibilities"
NEW ARTICLES OF THE WEEK
Author: Lyle Greenfield
Reflecting on America’s values, history, and freedoms, author Lyle Greenfield emphasizes the importance of restoring our national unity. By examining how attitude changes and gratitude can rebuild our belief in the American spirit, the article urges us to take responsibility for…Continue reading
Author: Jude Bijou
Taking personal responsibility can significantly improve your life, but it also comes with challenges. In this article, we explore the pros and cons of stepping up to own your thoughts, feelings, and actions. By understanding the benefits of accountability and addressing…Continue reading
Author: Hope Ives Mauran
A revolution of love is unfolding around us, offering a path to healing, unity, and peace. This article explores the power of love and forgiveness to transform our world, encouraging us to trust in the field of love that surrounds us. By embracing love and letting go of fear, we…Continue reading
Author: Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com
How have movements like Christian Nationalism and the Prosperity Gospel deviated from Jesus’ actual teachings? This article explores how these modern movements distort the radical love, humility, and service at the core of the four Gospels. Learn how their focus on wealth,…Continue reading
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Author: Peter Coyote
Karma and justice often feel elusive, especially in a world filled with inequality and suffering. In this article, we explore how collective karma shapes societal justice and what role we play in this interconnected web. Uncover the deep relationship between karma, fairness, and…Continue reading
Author: Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com
Bigotry and racism are potent tools for authoritarian leaders, helping them divide societies and gain control. By stoking fear and targeting marginalized groups, authoritarianism thrives on hatred, weakens democracy, and creates a toxic environment where empathy is lost. This…Continue reading
Author: Stu Crum
This article shares how love helped our family navigate the challenges of a cancer diagnosis, strengthen our family bonds, and create a legacy of helping others. Discover how love can be a guiding force in even the most difficult times and learn about the impact of being there…Continue reading
Author: Toni Bergins, M.Ed.
Struggling with body image can keep us stuck in a cycle of self-criticism. This article offers four powerful steps to shift your mindset and fully embrace self-love and body acceptance. Learn how to focus on different parts of your body, send love to your “not good enough”…Continue reading
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Author: Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com
The 2024 U.S. election isn't just a choice between political figures—it's a decisive moment for the future of democracy. With the possibility of autocratic forces rising and democratic values at stake, the outcome will shape the nation’s path forward. Will the U.S. remain a…Continue reading
Author: Ramona Alaggia, University of Toronto
Sibling feuds can last a lifetime if not resolved. The Oasis reunion offers an example of how sibling relationships can heal, but what can we learn from it? Discover proven strategies for resolving sibling estrangement, including counseling, conflict resolution techniques, and…Continue reading
Author: Roger Patulny, Hong Kong Baptist University
Men are increasingly emotionally disconnected, leading to rising loneliness rates compared to women. Studies show traditional masculinity norms limit male intimacy and emotional expression, resulting in health and social issues. By relying too heavily on nuclear family…Continue reading
Author: Jacqueline Boyd, Nottingham Trent University
Research reveals that eye contact with your dog forms a human-dog brain connection through a phenomenon called neural coupling. This synchronisation of brain signals deepens the bond and understanding between humans and dogs. With increasing familiarity, this connection…Continue reading
Author: Neva Béraud-Peigné, Université Paris-Saclay; et al.
Discover the best exercises for brain health after 60 that will help you stay sharp and active. These physical activities improve memory, cognitive function, and overall brain performance, making it easier to navigate daily life with clarity and agility. Strengthen both body and…Continue reading
Author: Francisco J. Pérez Latre, Universidad de Navarra
Running effective workplace meetings requires clear objectives, defined roles, and streamlined agendas. Learn productive meetings strategy to reduce time-wasting and maximize productivity. From setting a clear purpose to encouraging active participation, these strategies help…Continue reading
Author: Bradley Elliott, University of Westminster
A new study tackles the long-debated question: Which has a greater impact on lifespan, genetics or diet? By examining caloric restriction in genetically diverse mice, researchers found that while dietary restrictions can extend lifespan, genes play a larger role in determining…Continue reading
Author: Mark S Tremblay and Nicholas Kuzik, University of Ottawa
A global study finds that only 14% of preschoolers meet movement guidelines for physical activity, screen time, and sleep. This article explores how physical activity, limited screen time, and good sleep are essential for healthy growth and development in young children. Learn…Continue reading
Author: Savannah Stuart, University of Waterloo; et al.
Virtual reality nature is becoming a trendy tool for wellness, but how does it compare to real nature? While VR headsets can offer visually stunning environments, they can't provide the sensory immersion or well-being benefits that come from physical interaction with nature.…Continue reading
This Week's Astrological Overview
Author: Pam Younghans
This weekly astrological overview is based on planetary influences, and offers perspectives and insights to assist you in making the best use of current energies. This column is not intended as prediction. Your own experience will be more specifically defined by transits to your…Continue reading.
See article page for links to the audio and video/YouTube versions of the Astrological overview for this week.
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Research reveals that eye contact with your dog forms a human-dog brain connection through a phenomenon called neural coupling. This…
Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com
The 2024 U.S. election isn't just a choice between political figures—it's a decisive moment for the future of democracy. With the…
Bradley Elliott, University of Westminster
A new study tackles the long-debated question: Which has a greater impact on lifespan, genetics or diet? By examining caloric restriction…
Roger Patulny, Hong Kong Baptist University
Men are increasingly emotionally disconnected, leading to rising loneliness rates compared to women. Studies show traditional masculinity…
Robert Jennings, InnerSelf.com
How have movements like Christian Nationalism and the Prosperity Gospel deviated from Jesus’ actual teachings? This article explores how…
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Thanks for visiting InnerSelf.com, where there are 20,000+ life-altering articles promoting "New Attitudes and New Possibilities." All articles are translated into 30+ languages. Subscribe to InnerSelf Magazine, published weekly, and Marie T Russell's Daily Inspiration. InnerSelf Magazine has been published since 1985.